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The amount of red flags that exposed themselves from one conversation is unbelievable. What do you mean this guy has two kids, that are less than 6 months apart by age, from two different women?! What do you mean he kept that a secret for over two months? What do you mean “I was asking too many questions”?? My god, this man…
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Thank goodness the girlfriend did let him get in her head, and was able to recognize just how weird this situation is. I know I said that it is okay to keep secrets at the beginning of a relationship, but this is taking it one step too far.
Hopefully, this guy will sort his life up before he attempts dating again, and he won't hide his two kids from the next girl he's dating. Until then, at least one girl didn't allow him to keep up with this crazy behavior.
Keep scrolling to read what other people had to say about this entire situation…
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Woman flees boyfriend's apartment after he reveals he has two kids from two different women, leading to their dramatic breakup when more details are uncovered: ‘This man is crazy’
I am a firm believer that relationships take a lot of time to build, and so does trust between the two people involved. That means that it is okay if you don't feel comfortable exposing all your deep dark secrets to the person you just started dating, even if those secrets are crucial for the continuation of your relationship. It takes time, and as far as I'm concerned, that is totally acceptable.
However, there are some things that are not okay to keep from a potential partner, and as much as you might be relucted to share them, the person you are dating deserves to know as soon as possible. I am talking about secrets that can alter the nature of your relationship, and are much better out in the open than buried deep down.
Being a parent, for example, is not something one should keep from a person they are dating. First, because they deserve to know and decide if they are ready to date someone who has a child, and second, because keeping something like that a secret is simply weird. Having a kid is a life-changing experience, and actively trying to hide that fact is not healthy or realistic, and definitely not good for any blossoming relationship.
It seems like the boyfriend in this story would not agree with me, as he hid the fact that he is a father from his girlfriend for over two months. When she eventually found out, things didn't go so well…